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Living the God-kind of Life.

Sometimes I have mixed feelings of God. A time that I would wish He was soft and gentle and temper justice with kindness and then another time that I would wish He was harsh and impatient.

Don’t misunderstand me, I know God can be both at the same time towards certain children of His that decides to disobey Him. And one thing I’ve come to realise is that we tend to take His person for granted all because He’s not visible to us. We behave as we like and want forgetting He’s closer than we thought. Certain things we can’t do to our earthly parents are what we do to him yet He says nothing. Doesn’t that kill faster than a deadly poison? Yet He still loves us.

Frankly speaking, I usually feels He could just you know come down or probably give us a slap on the cheeks whenever we utter unheard words about Him but i guess He isn’t that kind of a father to us.

Without doubt, I’ve seen someone that did something so terrible to another person and then I was like, God! Can’t you just punish this guy right here and now? What if he does something more terrible, would you rather sit up there watching him? But he said nothing. I felt pained and bittered as to why God delays His vengeance but one day He made me realise that if He had started with us on that note, then virtually everyone of us would have been wiped off and I said to myself that I myself ain’t any different. It is just by the grace of God.

To live a life of no blemish, to live a life God wants for us is without doubt by His grace and mercy. We do things that we actually didn’t wanna do but after its done its becomes irrepairable. Even Paul warred with this for years so who are we? But i know and believe that we can make a big difference. God is kind and patient enough to disregard our past mistakes and give us the chance to move on without condemning us. Let us make use of this grace without disgracing it and the one who gives us. Life can be tough which I’m very much aware of but with the help of God and the Holy Spirit, we can scale through.

Stay blessed and thanks for stopping by❤🤗

Abidemi Alabi

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Are you around the wrong People?

 “It’s better to be healthy alone than sick with someone else” – Phil McGraw

I made a big mistake once again. I trusted the wrong people. It’s so hard to know which people to trust.

People can be nice. So you trust them. People make mistakes and they apologize. So you trust them.

Some people have the best intentions. But those intentions pull you down into the quicksand. Into the desert. Into a coffin where you can’t breathe. They stain your person as well.

But deep down I’ve only found a few people in my life to trust. Over a period of decades.

Here’s what happens when you associate with the wrong people:

TIME KILLED

Every moment you spend with the wrong person you could’ve been spending with someone you love. Or you could’ve spent seeking God’s face for your life and trying to know him better.

This time could have also been judiciously utilized to be helpful to yourself by investing in yourself rather than wasting it with unproductive people.

BETRAYAL

People always tell you who they are right when they meet you. If your significant other says, “I’m afraid I’m going to hurt you”.

You might be right in between kisses. Nothing feels better than a kiss. Or even better, a first kiss. How can they hurt you. It’s a first kiss! The best feeling in the world.

How can she/he possibly ever hurt you? But if they say they will, then they will. It’s like the one time they will be honest with you.

Or if they are leaving someone else to be with you. That’s a pretty big sign of who they are, right? But you feel that attraction, that magnetism and you want to be close, to be in love, to trust that everyone else was a lie and now this is TRUTH. It’s not. It never will be! And just so you know, they can betray you at any time.

THEY CRUSH YOU

You always feel bad when you are around them. This might be your fault also. Why should someone be required to make you feel good.

But if you ALWAYS feel bad, no matter who they are, you should probably take a step back and ask, “what’s up?”.

This is the golden rule: WHEN YOU GET IN THE MUD WITH A PIG, THE PIG GETS HAPPY AND YOU GET DIRTY.

YOU CAN’T BE HONEST

At some point in my life I decided to stop pretending. I decided to stop caring what people think. If I can’t be myself this time, then I know I will start to drown again.

Being honest is like treading water. So you can see the sky in all of its expanse.

BAD INFLUENCE

When you can’t be honest anymore, it has become a bad influence on you. This people corrupt you, as you begin involving yourself in whatever shady activities they do. They influence you negatively. Nothing good can come out of you at this point in time.

Sometimes, it is better to be alone than be with certain set of people. These people would stain you, corrupt you and dump you as you won’t be able to stand the test of time with them anymore. Don’t you think it’s necessary to know quite well the person you claim to love or like before giving in to any relationship with them? I think so too. No one and I repeat, no one needs a person who would never think of moving forward in life as a friend. Because they will always see and think of you just as they do themselves.

Stay blessed and thanks for stopping by❤🤗

Abidemi Alabi

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Trusting God

Hello beautiful people, welcome to Harbidemy’s blog! Here’s wishing you a very happy Sunday and lovely weekend.

This is to encourage you and not to discourage you that as this year is going to an end, you can still achieve that very thing on your mind for whatsoever you set your heart to do, you can. Don’t limit your capability and capacity to earthly trend. The peace of God that passes all understanding will guide your heart as you place God above all your endeavours.

Learn to rely and trust in God. Nothing is impossible. Nothing is achievable. For with God all things are possible. Follow your heart and stop following trend or crowd. And all shall be well with you in Jesus name.

Abidemi Alabi

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19 Quotes to help you on your way to Happiness.

The pursuit of happiness is real. We all want to be happy, right?

After all, life’s better when we’re happy, healthy, and successful.

So to help you on your journey, please enjoy these feel-good quotes about happiness and being happy to help you find joy and satisfaction in life.

I am certain one or two of these quotes applies to you so do not hesitate to abide by them. Happiness is free! You deserve to be happy! Let nothing and no one kill your joy in life.

Stay blessed and thanks for stopping by🤗❤

Abidemi Alabi

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Where can I find Opportunity?

So today, I wanna share my view(s) on this particular issue that has been on my mind and i hope its useful for you as you read and try as much as possible to emulate it.

Many atimes we do not know that there are opportunities all around us. We feel they abide in certain places and then we get eager to reach those places by all means. For a typical Nigerian, he believes he has to leave for another country before he can make it in life, before he can see opportunity that would change his life for the better.

What they’ve failed to realise is that they can make it anywhere they are. According to Proverbs 13: 23, the grass can be green where you are, so till it. Resources may be where you are, so open your eyes and you would see it.

The mind isn’t just for feeling. It is equally part of the tools God has given us to accomplish certain things in life that seems impossible. Just as he has given us hands, legs, eyes amongst others. But it takes an opened mind with an opened eyes to understand when and depict when opportunities are knocking on our doors.

There’s a need to understand the engagement of our minds, how it overcome certain things. Don’t just follow the multitudes and their sayings or believe. Investigate and search scriptures to own up what you believe and do your own thinking yourself.

Also, our environment is pregnant of opportunities hence the need to pray for your eyes to be opened.

Don’t be easily distracted, be focused. Study the word of God. What your mind is full of is what you begin to act on. Start saying and confessing the word even if you don’t know where the manifestation is coming from. And all shall be well.

Stay blessed and thanks for stopping by🤗❤

Abidemi Alabi

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Getting the Unusual

Sometimes, you have to do the unusual in order to get the unusual. Get out of your comfort zone and take that step. Make those moves and tell the devil enough is enough of stealing your joy. No one can and would stop the devil from manifesting in your life, it is what you have to do yourself. And do it like you mean it.

Abidemi Alabi

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The real meaning of following Jesus.

Good morning and have a very nice day❤🤗

Abidemi.

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Motivation

Sometimes we’re tested not to show our weaknesses, but to discover our strength.

This means that the trials you are going through right now is only trying to check on your abilities, capabilities and capacities. Give not up because your light affliction is but for a moment. It won’t last longer than you think.

Stay blessed and thanks for stopping by❤🤗

Abidemi Alabi

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Grace Only!

Life they say

Doesn’t care who you’re

Your position it cares not

It just treat you as it pleases

Brings all shade of itself

And you cannot but accept it

The worst of it all

Is that it disgraces one

At any time it dim it fit

Making one feel like a fool

The ups and downs are a torture

The highs and lows are a hell

Which dismantles the weak

And only those who are the strongest

Survives in this life threatening journey

Only grace can see one through

No matter how strong you may seem

Only grace can make one stand

And stand tall through it all.

Stay blessed and thanks for stopping by❤🤗

Abidemi Alabi

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A word of PRAYER.

Hello! A very good morning to you all and welcome to Harbidemy’s blog! Hope you had a good read on our last post?

So today i just wanna crave our indulgence to please say me a word of prayer to this family I have been checking on at the hospital. You remember I posted about them a few days ago so today is their another appointment with the doctor and what they’ve been saying doesn’t suit me one bit so i thought to share with my beloved readers in here to please pray along with us as in here as become where i dump my emotions.

So thanks guys for every word of prayer you drop in the comment section as we believe Every word count and that God would definitely not turn deaf hears to them. Thank you so much. We’re grateful! And we love you all❤🤗

Abidemi Alabi