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I know you’ve probably had lost opportunities and here you are trying to accept the fact that you can actually still achieve something irrespective of how time and chance has dealt with you but there you are wondering how you can embrace yourself and believe yourself again.

But hear this,

If you’re not where you want to be in your career or in your life, never let yourself believe change is impossible. Don’t allow your future to be limited by your age or your situation; stop being afraid of what might go wrong and start getting excited about what could go right.

So today we gonna be talking about 10 ways you can begin right now to steer yourself towards a more fulfilled and happy life:

  1. Address the choices you’ve made in the past and change the choices you’ll make in the future.

Life is made up of choices, there are some we regret, some we’re proud of and some that will hurt us. Everything in your life and your career is a reflection of a choice you have made. If you want different results, start making different choices. Its as simple as that.

2. Speak up with honesty and stop holding back what you think.

People often believe that honesty won’t win you many friends, but even if that were true, the friends you make with honesty will be the right ones. Honesty is the cornerstone of all success, without which confidence and the ability to perform cannot exist. And so, no holding back.

3. Leave the mentality of a perfectionist. Perfect doesn’t exist.

Oh yeah, you heard me correctly. Once you realize perfect doesn’t exist, you can ease up on yourself. There’s no harm in being wrong or making mistakes, as long as you’re willing to make corrections. Just be yourself.  No human being is perfect, be aware that we can’t push away our failures and our flaws.

4. Acknowledge your losses and move on to your success.

Remember, winners aren’t people who never fail but people who never quit. It’s important to never let success get to your head or failure to your heart. The secret to getting ahead is to acknowledge your failures and have the wisdom to apply them to new opportunities. That’s the only way you can move on in life.

5. Remember that it’s not how many mistakes you’ve made but what you learn from them that defines you.

Your number of mistakes doesn’t matter at all because whether you like it or not you won’t always make the right decisions. But your mistakes doesn’t mean you’ve failed, only that you’re trying and learning in life. If you are not making mistakes it means you are not trying hard enough. When you learn from them, mistakes have the power to turn you into something better than you were before.

6. Forgive those who have hurt you but change who you surround yourself with.

This is very necessary. You can improve your life just by changing the people you surround yourself with. If there are some who have brought negativity or hurt into your life, accept that those actions can neither be undone nor forgotten except only forgiven. Take it as a lesson learned and surround yourself with people who support you, guide you and make you better than you already are.  

7. Find success at the edge of your comfort zone.

Regardless of our hesitation or fear, humans need change to be happy. Try to do something you’ve never done before. Don’t be afraid to try new things and stand in your discomfort zone. If you want something you’ve never had, you have to do something you’ve never done.

8. Don’t compare your own life with anyone else’s.

This is one thing I would never do to myself. A big source of unhappiness is the idea that other people’s lives are better or easier than yours. Of course, we’re not the same so why compare me with them. And when you compare your situation to that of others, you’re comparing your complete reality to their surface. No matter how fantastic, how happy, how brilliant everything may seem on the outside, you never know what’s going on, on the inside. You may think they are living well than you but they equally have their challenges.

9. Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go higher than you think.

I usually tell people to be careful about what they think of because what you think is what you become. And the sad truth is that most of us are our own worst enemy, allowing our negative thoughts to hold us back. If you load up on positivity and great thoughts, you can create positive and great things for yourself. If you want to change and change fast, start by changing how you think.

10. Eliminate the unnecessary and cultivate the essentials.

Think of all the things in your life that are important to you, the essentials and hold on to them then eliminate everything else. This system helps you simplify your life and see what you should focus on. It can work for anything you have in your life, professional or personal. And just the act of letting things go will help you to focus on what’s important, and to build the life you want.

Thanks for reading❤🤗

Stay blessed!


By Harbidemy's blog

Abidemi Alabi is a writer, quotes creator, content creator, poet and a blogger whose purpose is inspiring and motivating people.


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