It Start with You: Work on Yourself First.

It is often said that human beings are full of toxic tongues. And without doubt, this has been confirmed a hundred decades ago. People tend to talk about their fellow humans without taking a thought out of their bowel of reasoning to realise that they on the other side more often than not have a lot to do with themselves.

All some knows how to do is grab a sit and talk claptrap about other people. And I’ve found out that it is this same set of people that actually have more problems that needs to be dealt with by either a personal intervention or a communal one, mostly spiritual.

The way and manner in which we belittle people’s effort is uncalled for. The way we run people down with our tongues is not good enough. The way we condemn others for what they’ve decided to help with but couldn’t come up well with is totally unacceptable. These people have decided to be a change and you that isn’t even near the change rather than being the change, why talk them down? Why try to see their making of sense as making nonsense? If you were that good and worthwhile, wouldn’t you have taken up the responsibility of being a sought after individual?

Or are you the type that would sit idle, singing that you want someone who would accept you the way you’re? Why not work on yourself first and chip away your toxic self for a better self? Why not work on yourself for yourself first and quit the unnecessary judgement you pass on people that are constantly trying to make a change and as well be that change that we all need?

Stop hiding behind the facade, you too can be the change! It start little, it start with your voice. Don’t be a coward, let people know what you support rather than being one leg in one leg out. Speak. Speak out. Work on yourself rather than trying to work negatively on people who are trying to cause a change in your community.

Remember, Change is all we need and it start with you!

Stay blessed and thanks for stopping by❤🤗

Abidemi Alabi